Isn’t it time you were happy At Work?
Women criminally undervalue themselves.
When you know your self-worth you’ll never compromise on your value.
Self-Care Is Not Selfish
Guilt is an emotion so many women feel in the struggle to balance our personal and professional lives.
We often feel like we need to be available 24/7 for our work in addition to caring for our families, at the cost of our own wellbeing and mental health. Leaving you in a state of hopelessness, despair and very often isolation.
Unable to reach out for help, fearing the stigma of being weak. Until you’re a hot mess and as fragile as a Faberge egg.
Prolonged Stress & Overwhelm Is A Fast Track To Burnout
When you don’t have enough energy, feel empty, mentally exhausted and lose hope of anything changing in a positive way.
Women lost what was left of “me” time.
It’s time to change the narrative of what self-care is. It’s so much more than face masks and bubble baths. Or a day at Champneys with the girls. That surface-level pampering feels yummy but it doesn’t touch you on a soul level.
I’m talking about the deep self-care that nourishes you from the inside out. It’s about caring for all your emotional needs, wants, and desires in EVERY life area so you can live your best life.
It’s about finding the balance between pushing yourself out of your comfort zone and nurturing yourself when you need it by *bringing you back in*.
Because I know firsthand that there’s nothing more triggering when you’re in a career tailspin. Spinning around like Kylie in her gold hot pants – crippled with analysis paralysis looking for the perfect solution.
So why not save yourself the time, the tears and the tantrums and put an end to your career chaos? Speed up the process and book a Career Discovery Call. This call will help you figure out where you need to change the narrative and declare what you want.
My question is, Why?
You can go out there and spend months, even years, dealing with all the stress of trying to piece together the answers.
Or you can shave 1000’s of hours of headache and heartache by leveraging the strength and knowledge of someone who’s already been there.
I know the EXACT challenges you are facing. Having spent almost 30 years in corporate I’ve navigated more life and career transitions than Madonna has had reinventions…
3 redundancies
2 career pivots
1 bout of burnout
quit the 9-5 to start a business…
…and a lifetime spent fulfilling her dreams – I’m your Girl Friday!
So why sit there Googling the answers to your career woes 12 times a day, every day when you can have me in your corner?
Come with me, I’ll show you a better way to steer your career without the drama. So you can get your time and energy back and fall in love with your life again.
Whether you’re ready for an exciting new challenge. Feel uncertain about your current job. Or perhaps you’ve been made redundant or are returning to work after a break. Or maybe you’re just looking to align yourself with a company that shares your values.
No matter where you are in your career journey, the VIP Experience is your gateway to a world of opportunities. The C.A.R.E.™ Plan is designed to provide the motivation to keep that sustained fire burning as you advance to the next level. It’s the Master Plan in Female Leadership, Self-Identity and Wellbeing.
Don’t miss your chance to be inspired, explore new possibilities, and take your career to new heights and ultimate success.
Career up, down, sideways or exit?
Which will it be?
Book now for a life-changing gift to self. Apply for a Career Discovery Call and breathe again.
Click the button below and I’ll email you the application.
What to Expect on the Discovery Call
The focus of this 45-minute virtual call is for you to get clarity on your next best career step so you can move forward.
Whether you choose to work with me or not, you’ll walk away from this call feeling excited and energised. With a clearer vision of what’s possible, an understanding of what’s really getting in your way, and the conviction to bring your vision to life.
You’re more likely to invest in yourself when you experience the power of it. All it takes is ONE meaningful result to shift the needle.
By the end of the call, if we’re a good fit, there’s an exciting opportunity to work together to reach your goal faster and easier with the powerful VIP Experience (keep scrolling)…
…that does all the heavy lifting for you. Saving you time, space and energy, or you can choose to go it alone.
The reason most people get less than they want?
They settle for less than they want and then rationalise why it’s okay to because they “didn’t want and/or deserve more anyway”.
Nah.
You want what you want for a reason.
You’re worthy of it (all of it).
Your success shouldn’t be defined by the hustle, but rather the lack thereof.
By having the belief that you are worth more than how hard you work. By knowing that good stuff comes easy if you let it.
Let’s create a future for you that’s more compelling than your current reality.
Book a Career Discovery Call (only £197). You don’t want to miss your best year yet!
The VIP Experience!!
Get Your Career Mojo Back
Sometimes you just want that bougie experience.
So why not give yourself some extra love and treat yourself to VIP status?
Inside this ultra-focused immersive, we’ll design your bespoke action plan around your goal using a mix of mindset + strategy. Which we sculpt and mould like clay as you evolve; that’s the beauty of a bespoke plan. It works with you!
…PLUS, we’ll plan a life-work balance that actually is that. By finding a different workstyle that lets you have a better lifestyle. You’ll learn how to leverage your time and increase your energy.
…PLUS, you’ll discover how to live like a true high-performer, setting work and life goals that will positively impact your success. Dropping the work maniac culture makes life that much easier to navigate.
If you want to go gaga over your goals…I’ve created the perfect space and support to make it happen. A space for you to normalise your fears, dreams, ambitions and showcase your fabulousness.
The VIP container is a personal experience with depth of care. The safe space I craved but never found. So I created one for women just like us.
Because the emotions behind those big decisions can be so bombastically overwhelming that they paralyse us in not taking action. Instead we bottle it all up…until it’s too late. Don’t make the same mistakes I made.
Let’s (Re-)Design Your Life Together
If you’re a woman on the pivot, the VIP Experience is the ultimate foundation to living your wildest, best and most satisfying life. The gateway to the impossible, the unconventional, the outrageous, the unimaginable.
It’s your dream-to-reality escape plan.
When you go up the belief ladder and emotional scale, life just becomes easier. You get to experience joy, more joy and even more joy, as you upgrade, simplify and enjoy life.
Sometimes, you don’t know what you need until it shows up. Could this be the opportunity you didn’t know you needed?
Here’s the skinny on what’s inside the VIP Experience
✓ A personalised 2 ½ hour mentoring session, available online, saving you time and energy.
✓ Experience the empowerment that comes from problem-solving the burning issues preoccupying you and impacting your work life.
✓ A bespoke action plan centred around the 4-step C.A.R.E.™ framework so you stay on track with your goal.
✓ We’ll collaborate on actionable solutions that are right for you at this point in time. Transformative tasks that fit seamlessly into your schedule, allowing you to level up in just a few minutes a day.
✓ A self-care plan that fits around your busy life and evolves with you. Practices that will enhance your overall wellbeing and sharpen your cognitive functions.
✓ We’ll focus on your life, bringing out the best in you and your career to amplify your natural brilliance.
✓ You’ll journey to your edge as you unlock your potential and become who you were always meant to be.
✓ Delightful surprises to make the experience fun and memorable. Because when you’re fully engaged you go further faster.
✓ Resilience tools for the ultimate bouncebackability. So when those lifequakes shake you to the core, you don’t crumble under pressure like a stale cookie.
✓ Feel more in control of your career without having to hustle harder.
✓ Channel your confidence to go BIG on your dreams with so much conviction that even Miley Cyrus’ wrecking ball couldn’t knock you over.
✓ And finally, no VIP Experience would be complete without an after party. So there’s a backstage pass for 28 days of email support to keep the motivation buzzing and the accountability flowing. So you can cross the line in speed, style and to schedule.
BOOM!!!
This package is perfect if you recognise the need for an overall strategy to build towards that ONE burning issue you have right now in a structured and fun way. One goal. One result. No overwhelm!
The 3 Keys That Make The VIP Experience Fail-Proof
Momentum. Accountability. Consistency.
This insanely powerful package is all about consistent and inspiring actions that pay off in an impactful learning space. Experience the relief and radical shifts that come from receiving personalised advice, when you raise your level of thinking through high-level mentoring.
What better way than to AMPLIFY your vision and momentum towards your goal by doing it TOGETHER!
So, if you’re loving the VIP vibe and want to walk the red carpet. Book a Career Discovery Call.
The 4-Step C.A.R.E.™ Framework
There’s nothing more in the world I love than teaching people how to get further faster with less effort. And that comes down to savvy strategies that uplevel every area of your life – get you unstuck, inspired and hitting your goals.
So I came up with this uber cool 4-step framework. That does just that. And it fits around you and your busy schedule. Because it’s easy to get overwhelmed and stare at this big hairy goal you’ve got and have no idea where to start.
Having navigated some major life transitions, I can show you where to start, the steps to take and how to stay on track.
By breaking your goal down into the steps of the framework, you will learn simple and powerful techniques that create motivation and excitement on tap – skills that’ll serve you for a lifetime.
💡 Clarity: How deep is your Why?
Clarify your vision, skills and intentions and let them propel you to lead a more fulfilling life. You’ll make conscious choices and filter opportunities through the lens of your deepest priorities.
👣 Action: Take aligned action using your intellect and intuition.
Set goals aligned with your values and aspirations, allowing you to invest your time wisely and with purpose. Create a bigger impact, elevate your presence and eliminate doubt by tapping into your innate gifts and hidden talent.
🧠 Reframe: The mental blocks that trip you up.
Equip yourself with the mindset shifts necessary for overcoming challenges and seizing opportunities. Turn obstacles into opportunities. And worst-case scenarios into best possible outcomes with an arsenal of resilience tools that’ll make you bulletproof.
⚡Evolve: Plot your next move.
Dream a little bigger. The level of human potential is like a trifle – just layers upon layers. You get to keep expanding and mastering your brilliance as you cast a bigger vision for your future.
If you crave simplicity and success the C.A.R.E.™ Plan will show you how to have it all without crushing your soul.
But why you, Koser?
Because I’m a Goal Strategist and Dreammaker. I help women move from wishing to having that work-life balance. Turn audacious daydreams into reality. Tackle overwhelm and inspire action.
By using my methods to bring the best in you out. So you can make even your most outrageous goals come to life.
As a certified and accredited life coach, I’m an expert in working with women who want to make big changes. Couple that with 29 years of corporate brilliance and you’ve got yourself a freaking unicorn!
By using evidence-based practices from popular psychology + philosophies to get results. Why we do what we do and how to do it differently to get what we really want.
I can show you how to get out of your own way so you can take chances + grab opportunities while navigating the highs + lows life throws at you…because life’s a bit like a rollercoaster.
So, if you value investing in your wellbeing, that goes above and beyond the odd massage or positive thinking workshop. And battle procrastination, perfectionism, and over-performing are my jam.
You’ll unlock your true potential and become the ultimate high performer, where imposter syndrome that plagues so many highly successful women falls to the wayside.
My services are more valuable than money. Because I’m offering you a way out (of your worries) – the solution you can’t see.
I’ve made it SO easy for you to say YES to giving this a go.
But…
…for all those procrastinators out there (I see you, I was you) who are still on the fence, read to the very end and crush those doubts!
A tale of two lifestyles…
What’s the difference between a High Achiever & a High Performer?
Most high achievers often live life to full capacity.
Whereas high performers live life to their full potential (think of an Olympian).
How to break the burnout cycle
In a world where hustle is often worn as a badge of honour, rest is reckless. We have the usual suspects; overwhelm and burnout. Then there are the undercover operators, the time and energy suckers that are scattered priorities and lack of boundaries.
This causes poor career decisions.
If you want to make LESS money, it’s easy. Get up close with fatigue and burnout.
High achievers who experience fatigue and burnout struggle with focus, bad decisions, lack of creativity–and honestly, sometimes desperation.
What’s the fix? Taking some time for mental and physical health, setting boundaries and reassessing priorities.
And if you’re looking for a tool to help you do that, you really do need to check out the C.A.R.E.™ Plan inside the VIP Experience. Where you’ll learn to understand the driving force and the underlying motivations behind your actions.
Work smarter. Hard work doesn’t make you happy. Happiness makes you work harder. My business consumes me all day, every day because I love what I do. Imagine when work no longer feels like work because you’re so aligned!
We often get caught up in the busyness of life, running on autopilot, constantly pursuing external achievements and seeking recognition. Suffocating inside our cocoons like a caterpillar. What we really need is to create some wiggle room so we can expand into the best versions of ourselves and turn into that butterfly.
More often than not, we make our decisions harder than they need to be.
Some years back, I was a family carer. Juggling work and home took its toll. My nerves were shot. I was drowning in a sea of responsibilities, sleep-deprived and time-starved.
So, I decided to go down to a 4-day week. Even though the drop in salary preyed on my mind, the pressure cooker feeling melted away. Along with the martyr complex – that female phenomenon to save everyone.
But who’s gonna save you when you have as much life left in you as a limp lettuce?
The freedom that came with having some “me” time was the solution I needed. To treat my health as my wealth. If you care for others, who cares for you?
What do you predict will happen if you don’t change your current situation?
If your problem is urgent and serious enough, you’ll make the time to dive into the transformation needed to solve it.
Are you ready to break free from your cocoon and FLY? Book a Career Discovery Call. It might just be the permission slip you need.
Can you relate?
You’ve pulled an all-nighter at the office, yet you still have to show up the next day with your warpaint on and your A-game.
But what’s it doing to your body? Polished on the outside, but the cracks are starting to show underneath. Until you resemble Meryl Streep’s character in The Devil Wears Prada – at the top of her game but colder than the North Pole.
Or maybe this is you?
You’re Bridget Jones. Trying to be taken seriously at work while at the same time looking for Mr Darcy. With one eye on promotion and the other on your biological clock.
Or perhaps this is you?
While you’re clinking cocktail glasses and nibbling on canapes at yet another client function, you’re feeling mum guilt.
Cos the thought of missing all those firsts with your kids makes your stomach churn (and it’s not the dodgy vol-au-vents). But you’re caught in the middle; you want to be valued at work and be there for the VIPs in your life.
And when you finally make it home, you flop into bed looking like an extra from The Walking Dead. Sleep-starved and stressed-out. With bags under your eyes so heavy you couldn’t get on a plane without being charged excess baggage.
It’s time to get out of survival mode
Have your let your standards slip?
Has your need to be and to feel successful led you astray? Sacrificing your time and energy without truly prioritising what matters to you the most?
Deep down, you know that this lifestyle isn’t sustainable or fulfilling. But it’s not your fault. Lack of awareness. Lack of time for your own self-development. Time spent constantly putting out fires hinders us from taking action.
Rapid-fire burnout is not pretty. Take it from someone who knows. Your life needs a guardrail to end the cycle of burning the candle at both ends.
- How do you stay true to your vision when there are so many things that need to get done?
- How do you keep up with all the increasing demands?
- How do you cut out all the noise?
Or maybe you’re just trying to figure out how to get space in your life that gives you freedom to work on:
- That idea you’re nurturing.
- That goal you’re secretly harbouring.
- That dream you’re keeping quiet about.
THIS IS NOT A PIPE DREAM.
The C.A.R.E.™ Plan can help you understand what you need to release and let go of that no longer serves you. So you can raise your vibration and call in all the good stuff. And FINALLY, have a winning strategy for that work-life tug-of-war.
Unlock a new way of living life…
How to Take Care Of Yourself When You Can’t Get Anything Done
The High Performance Lifestyle is the future of how women live and work. And it’s centred around the C.A.R.E.™ Plan. That encourages inner validation, as much as it does external success.
What you get with the C.A.R.E.™ Plan will not only improve your career…but you’ll experience a personal growth journey that’s priceless. And a whole new vibe to how you live life.
Inside the 4-step framework, you’ll discover the benefits of High Performance Habits. Creative strategies that will forever change the way you approach your goals.
When you upgrade to the VIP Experience, you’ll learn how to apply those principles to your life so you can skip the learning curve and do what works.
Expect some audacious outcomes…
⚡Feel empowered as you streamline your life and drop the deadweight holding you back.
⚡ Have enough energy to see you through the work day and have life in you when you get home.
⚡ Guilt-free No’s. Remove friction from your life by saying no to things that no longer serve you.
⚡Feel in control over your setbacks and learn to recognise the potential of hidden opportunities.
⚡Explore taking risks vs seeking security; how to anticipate, shape and embrace change.
⚡Know when to work, rest and perform at your best.
⚡ Boundaries that give you space to breathe, live and have fun, improving your relationships.
⚡ Dive deep into the world of intentionality to make the most out of each day.
But what makes it one of its kind is that it’s also built strategically to help you win back your time.
And that’s not so you can cram more in. It’s about creating the space you crave – instead of being trapped in the neverending hamster wheel of role-playing and people-pleasing.
True fulfilment comes from aligning our time with our values and aspirations.
Because if you can live like that, you have so much more room to envision; to dream; to create; to think; to find new opportunities. And make space for new things to come in.
What do you need to let go of to make space for something BIGGER & BETTER to drop in?
Can you imagine the POWER and RELIEF you would feel when you get clear on your priorities and decide what to delegate or dump?
You have 2 choices…
Do nothing and keep wishing.
OR
Be part of the 5%. Take the leap of faith.
So you really gotta make that career move. Or your life just becomes the epitome of doom, gloom and ruination…like an English summer’s day.
Sound about right? If so, good news gorgeous: the C.A.R.E.™ Plan is here to help! Go from overly cautious as you procrastinate, weep and wail over your lack of action. To fully committed with a bespoke action plan that embodies you and your utter brilliance.
Is that a sigh of relief I hear? 😉
You know it’s time for a radical change. Your soul is craving for it.
But trying to figure out what exactly to do – like the exact next steps to take, when and how – can be insanely daunting, especially on your own.
Let’s create the career you want around the lifestyle you crave. Book a Career Discovery Call.
Now meet the High Performer
She’s the high achiever minus the overwhelm and burnout. Who can boss her boundaries without feeling like a biatch.
And when you meet her, you feel her presence.
⭐ She inspires you from the moment she walks into the room.
⭐ She radiates female empowerment.
⭐ She knows her worth and her power.
⭐ She accepts her imperfections and her vulnerabilities.
⭐ She embraces her limitations and her possibilities.
⭐ She lives her life on the leading edge. Slays her own lane and her only competition is herself.
⭐ She’s the energiser bunny that never runs out of juice. Because she has her self-care practice down.
⭐ She is enchanted by the mess and the magic of life.
⭐ She never sits on her laurels. She uses her genius to keep evolving into the best version of herself.
⭐ She knows rest isn’t a luxury but a priority to live an optimal life that’s filled with vigour and vitality.
⭐ She uses her innate feminine powers to guide her on her path. Allowing life to flourish with every step she takes.
⭐ She’s living her best life in EVERY life area…
…all while being wildly ambitious, focused and driven.
This is high performance living for the modern woman. The difference between thriving and surviving.
HELLO FUTURE YOU!
The C.A.R.E.™ Plan for High Performers
You can’t enjoy ease until you have independent financial freedom and live a spacious life.
Here’s what matters to girls like us:
happiness | fulfilment | family | mental health | physical health | relationship health | money for pleasure | money for travel | money for investment
We want time, oodles of it–but in a way that feels like ease.
We want money, oodles of it–but in a way that feels like ease.
Did you know women over the age of 40 are now the fastest-growing business demographic? Why? Because of the F word. FREEDOM. Time Freedom. Financial Freedom. Creative Freedom.
The C.A.R.E.™ Plan is pioneering an all new way to build a lucrative career and a spacious, ease-filled life.
A step-by-step process to structure your career and plan your life. It will help you to find more autonomy and happiness. And offers a practical toolkit to help you elevate your ambitions and aspirations. Steering your life in dynamic directions.
This movement has been in progress for years–the pandemic only served to accelerate the inevitable. The life you truly want designed under your terms. Flexibility with how you use your valuable time and energy; time to be better to yourself.
Are you chomping at the bit to get going?
Let’s get your confidence up! It’s no good giving you the strategy without the mindset to go with it.
Stop searching. Stop scrolling. Stop browsing.
Invest In Shortcuts
Just as water is invisible to fish, you can’t see your blind spots. Having someone point out what’s oblivious to you is like being slapped across the face with a wet fish…
…all it takes is a bit of plain talk and encouragement to shift your perspective and see your options through a different lens (aka the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed).
Career decisions don’t have to be hard or even terrifying. With mentorship + accountability, you go further faster.
The Right Kind of Guidance
You need the support of somebody who gets your world. It’s the only way to succeed at your goals.
Such as the time I was in training for the iconic Everest Base Camp trek…the only person I shared my training milestones with was ‘R’, my super fit friend. Because she understood what it takes to get into shape for a high-altitude trek.
But I do get it…placing your trust in a stranger can be scary. Working with someone new is a risk. At best, it’s life-changing, and at worst, you feel like you’ve wasted money.
When we’re done, I can’t promise that your whole life’s going to change overnight.
What I can promise is there will be noticeable shifts in your life that open you up to new ways of being. Where there were once problems, you’ll see opportunities. Where you were once stressed, you’ll have more ease.
My superpower is opening you up to the infinite possibilities available to you.
So that you NEVER feel trapped in a job or relationship you hate because you can’t afford to leave.
So that you NEVER feel guilt-ridden to stay because of the responsibilities you have.
You can start again. You can change your mind. You can change your career. You can change your future. ALWAYS.
All it takes is a 1% shift to create a better reality.
All it takes is a 1% shift to get closer to your dream.
All it takes is a 1% shift to make a life-changing decision.
And that 1%? It’s the spicy difference between “meh” success and “BOOM”, mega-growth in life and work.
Picture yourself having the power to facilitate your own profound transformation. Life that flows so effortlessly and gracefully that you’re in disbelief it could be this easy.
Envision being able to identify exactly where you’re blocked and possess the skills to help you clear the obstacles standing in the way of your success, brilliance and flow.
Imagine mastering your innate wisdom and effortlessly “reading the signs”, making decision-making easier. No more drowning in doubt!
Your career, only more powerful.
Pretty dreamy, right?
So, if you want to be the best at what you do, apply for that Discovery Call.
Escape the Sea of Sameness
Over time, executive coaches have become popular in grooming high-potential leaders for success. But today’s smart, savvy woman seeks the support of a coach who covers life and career.
Someone who sees her for who she truly is.
That’s why I’m not like most other coaches, who focus on strategy alone. Experience has shown me this isn’t enough. They fail to work on your mindset and how to build a life around your core values – the secret sauce to a happy career.
By adding mindset coaching and lifestyle design to my services, you get the whole nine yards. Because you want the ultimate solution, not a band-aid approach.
Mindset–The Psychology of Success
To achieve sustainable success, your mindset needs to be on point. From solving problems to getting what you really want–you have to create a new way of thinking. And that comes down to your belief system.
Those who get faster results have an open mind and implement the learning. The right mindset, energy and strategy plan can breathe new life into your career…flooding your life with riches of all kinds.
What would your life look like if you could manage your mind?
✓ Smash your inner glass ceiling.
✓ Get a promotion.
✓ A new career direction.
✓ Ditch toxic friendships.
✓ Turn your entire life into a rom-com plot.
✓ Master your imposter voice and manage fear.
✓ Better mental and physical health.
✓ Easier relationships with better communication.
✓ A better leader.
✓ Quit the 9-5 and become an entrepreneur.
The only way to get what you want is to raise your level of thinking. And that’s my SUPERPOWER.
If you’re tired of stalling your big dreams and you secretly want a super cushy lifestyle…without feeling guilty. You need a mindset makeover. That’s where it all starts.
This was true for me when I made the leap from employee to entrepreneur. Stuck in my old career identity. With the help of a coach I realised it was time to stop playing small. There’s an opportunity there, and I’m going to take it because I’m worthy of it and capable of doing it. This high-level thinking took me from the office girl I was to the businesswoman I’ve become.
It’s a truly freeing experience working with a coach to help facilitate those big breakthroughs. And feel the lightness that comes from having clarity. You get a fresh perspective but none of your baggage. Sweet!
So before you run to your nearest recruiter in a rage, be a Spice Girl and ask yourself – what do I really really want?
A Woman’s Career Cycle
There is so much to navigate as a woman in the workplace.
Those raging hormones you can’t switch off – from PMS to pregnancy to perimenopause, all the while navigating a promotion and the mental anxiety that comes with it all.
How are you supposed to think straight and plan your next move when you’re **this** close to going nuclear because nobody gets you?! We need support at every stage of our work life. So it’s only right we take care of our needs no matter the emotional season.
Don’t worry boo…I got you!
This is why I created the VIP Experience to support you. A judgment-free space that allows you to nurture your ambition and fosters growth. By giving you the clarity and direction that will impact your life choices.
Truth & Tactics
Why does a high-achieving woman on the pivot struggle with imposter syndrome? That voice in your head that shows up as…
procrastination; overworking; avoiding challenge; shoulding yourself; information hoarding; overthinking; comparisonitis; perfectionism; pent-up pressure; squandered opportunities
frustration over slow progress; fear of failure; refusing to delegate; denial of help; feeling like a fraud; sacrificing self-care; downplaying accomplishments – all fuelled by self-doubt!
Then, life comes along and dangles you a carrot, and you’re left facing a dilemma.
But you know change is the only solution when you can’t ignore what you know:
when your heart is breaking; when you’re suffocating; when work feels like punishment; when life has gotten stale; when it’s harder than it should be
when you’re procrastinating the inevitable; when you’re making excuses for the obvious; when your spirit is numb; when you wake up at 3.33 in the morning
When you can’t remember the last time you loved your life.
- It’s so easy to keep your dream in the future instead of having it now.
- It’s so easy to play it small and stay safe instead of living the largeness of your life.
- It’s so easy to try to do it all yourself instead of getting support.
- It’s so easy to be tame and vanilla instead of being connected to your truth.
Put yourself in an environment that doesn’t allow you to be complacent. A place where you’re inspired to have the dream now. Accountability to the dream and living into your higher self.
I know it can be scary taking the next step when you don’t have it all figured out, but you never will until you take that step.
Mic drop: Your fears are doing you a favour. They’re showing you the way…it’s only scary because you don’t have the instructions. And the antidote to feeling stuck + powerless…?
…is the VIP bespoke plan. Where you get a roadmap of where you’re going, how you’re going to get there and a toolkit for when you hit those speedbumps.
OR
You can choose the dangling carrot and watch your soul die a little every day.
Koser’s dangling carrot: The week after I decided to start a business, I received TWO job offers out of the blue. It took some steel coconuts to say no to the familiar and choose the untravelled path.
Do something different. Lean into your higher future.
Let’s address the ELEPHANT in the room
The TWO biggest obstacles as to why we don’t invest in ourselves…time and/or money.
I don’t have TIME for all that!
Let’s put it this way, if you have time for Instagram and can binge ‘just one more episode’ on Netflix, you have time to work on your goal. But a better question to ask is: Will this make my life better?
But I’m too busy – no you’re not. All you need is to be COMMITTED. What do you predict will happen if you don’t change your current situation?
If you’re hungry enough for change, you’ll take the time to make it happen.
How long do you think it would take you to watch every Game of Thrones episode or read every Harry Potter book?
Time has no relevance when you’re enthralled in the journey. Because you’re excited to see how the story unfolds and that’s what it’s like inside the VIP container. Watching YOUR story unfold. Now isn’t that just thrilling?!
Besides, it’s useless to THINK BIG if you act small.
An Olympian doesn’t win gold overnight; they train relentlessly for it. And the same can be said for the years of study it takes to become a lawyer.
The VIP Experience gives you the foundation to build an epic life. A baseline to course correct where your life has gone awry. In this invigorating session, we’ll design the path to get you what you realllly want.
What’s the story behind how you spend your money?
Hint: It has everything to do with your beliefs about wealth, deserving and personal worth – aka the insidious lies we tell ourselves to hide behind.
There are no rules about what something should cost, only decisions. SO LET’S MAKE GOOD ONES. We’re all operating on a made-up narrative. About what we imagine things “should” cost.
But here’s the secret – more than the money…it’s the anxiety of failing and the disappointment of not getting the results that you want. That stops us from investing in ourselves.
Our limiting beliefs – many that were established erroneously in early childhood become major stumbling blocks in our adult lives.
One way to kiss your negative self-speak goodbye, disarm money phobias and make way for more abundance is by focusing on VALUE.
When you take money off the table and replace it with value, you get clarity. Simply put, if something doesn’t give you value, it’s too expensive.
And how do you measure value? By how something makes you FEEL. Because quite frankly, the only reason we want anything is how it will make us feel.
Success is a FEELING not a status symbol.
What value FEELS like
⭐ Getting promoted to the executive level so you can be recognised as an industry leader.
⭐ The power + prestige of having the corner office.
⭐ Being the boss of your own purpose-driven business.
⭐ Better health with more energy to play with your kids.
⭐ More “me” time to Eat, Pray, Love.
What FEELINGS are you chasing?
When you’re value-driven, you live a BIGGER life.
What VALUE looks like in the long-term
Think of the woman who’s having IVF treatment…it’s taken forever and cost 10’s of 1,000″s until the morning arrives when she finds out she’s pregnant. What do you think she’s feeling with tears rolling down her cheeks? Having a child. PRICELESS.
OR
When you buy your forever home…the place you’ll raise your family…that one day your grandkids will come to visit…that someday you will leave to your children. Making memories. PRICELESS.
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You’ll find a ton of value inside the VIP container. Such as the breakthroughs you’ll have, the results you’ll get and the transformation you’ll go through. Living in your uniqueness. PRICELESS.
The VIP Experience isn’t a fleeting cost. It’s a lasting investment in you and your future. That’s worth MILLIONS.
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Don’t give me an excuse for why you can’t afford it or don’t have the time. Give me a reason why you don’t want to do it.
Want to know why you self-sabotage by not taking action?
(Trigger warning incoming)
It’s because you’re not willing to get uncomfortable. To do the thing you know you need to do to get what you want. From the depths of your soul, you know, but you choose to ignore. Ouch.
Your WHY needs to be stronger than your excuses
Don’t let your fears hold you back from realising your life and career aspirations.
“…Koser’s enthusiasm is infectious and her no-nonsense approach refreshing…She makes the complex easy and the intangible tangible…”
Agent Saboteur
Do you know the one thing that will always trip you up when pursuing your dreams, the undercover operator that always gets in the way?…
…low SELF BELIEF, shrouded in fear, doubt and worry.
“Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will”
A lack of belief can be fear of failure, change or a confidence thing. But it’s often just time, energy or resources.
No matter how much you want something you’ll forever be fearing the risk of wasting your investment rather than getting excitedly unlocking the returns.
And because most of us are more afraid of our greatness than we are of potential failure, we are likely to RESIST the very work that can empower us the most.
The minute you BELIEVE this will work for you it becomes a no-brainer.
Whatever it is, you need to close the doubt gap. Attack it at its root cause (as if it were a dandelion on your immaculate driveway) and flip it. Replace that concern with a credible case of why it will work this time.
A credible argument of why taking action will:
➤ Shrink timelines and increase the likelihood of getting the results you desire faster, saving you the grey hairs and wrinkles.
➤ Provide you with in-depth support to set practical goals, eliminate time-wasting tasks and plug energy leaks that will speed your day up.
➤ Uncover the profound mindset shifts around your identity that are critical to your success.
➤ Give you great value for money because you get specific advice and a solution to a problem you’ve been going around in circles with f-o-r-e-v-e-r.
➤ Cultivate outstanding rapport. We’ll be a powerhouse of positive vibes. Sparking an exchange of wit, wisdom and ideas.
➤ Provide you with a lifetime value skillset that’s so irresistible it will pay for itself over and over because you’re clear, confident, and energised about the path ahead.
But the biggest thing is you’ll no longer be tossing yourself into the confidence pit, crossing your fingers hoping for the best while bracing for the worst.
The VIP Experience is worth every penny because it collapses time. Get your problem sorted. Get your time back.
Transformation accelerated is something busy and highly motivated people value. Why? Because time is a commodity and weighted equally to your success.
The Inconvenient Truth. There Is No Plan B.
The clock is ticking down to how many days you have left on this planet. Do you really want to waste another nanosecond being miserable?
Your life will change either by design or disaster. Take control before it’s too late.
So here’s my advice to you:
BE out of your depth. BE in over your head. BE curious.
START hungry. START messy. Just START.
Stop avoiding reality and DO THE HARD THING. I know you can do it.
Someday is TODAY. Apply for a Career Discovery Call.
The Sweet Sauce Of Self Belief
Self-belief kicks in when you realise good enough IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH. When you know change is here. When you know, nothing will change if you don’t change.
While most focus on the strategic side of goal setting, there’s a much more emotional and psychological side to a goal. The part many trip up on.
Sweet Dreams (Are Made Of This)
It’s euphoric to witness someone’s dreams come true. I remember sitting in the stadium watching the Men’s 400m finals at the London 2012 Olympics – when the winner crossed the finish line, he dropped to his knees and cried. And the tears just kept rolling, with the realisation of a dream come true. His unstoppable self-belief got him over the line.
I welled up, too. As I sat and watched someone else’s dream come true, I fulfilled one of my own…to attend the greatest sporting event on the planet. And for that extra bit of stardust, held in the city of my birth. Don’t you just love unicorn moments like these?
This is why I do what I do. To help women turn their dreams into reality. I’ve devoted myself to honing my craft and art around seeing the light in others before they do. Believing in them before they do.
No dream is too big. No action too small.
Can you see how self-belief makes it impossible for you to fail?
Time to Thrive
The High Performance Lifestyle is the future of the way we live and work. A new, ease-filled version of work and an all-new lifestyle to boot: one that values time, new experiences and authentic living as much as it does financial success.
The C.A.R.E.™ framework is a lucrative lifestyle template for women who think they don’t have time for self-care…the lifestyle with the Female Factor at its core.
When you integrate the 4 pillars into your daily life, you sculpt a life so lush and grand you’d think you had superpowers. One where you wake up excited to start the day and see what magic will unfold.
What’s the biggest risk in life?
When you don’t take a chance on yourself.
Accountability is an attitude and a way of being. Those who hold themselves accountable have the coconuts to own up to their situation and the grit to change it.
Are willing to bare-all and be coachable in the spirit of growth. They find solutions and don’t get stuck in victim mode. It’s easy when you have a growth mindset and approach things with a beginner’s mind.
And when you have an accountability pro like me on your side, there’s no danger of falling into the pity party trap. You have a 90% more chance of completing something if you have an accountability coach.
I’ll ask those bold questions to get to your truth…and at times, it might burn like a Brazilian. Because sometimes it ain’t pretty. But it’s ok to ugly cry on me.
Together, we’ll deal with the gunk that’s in the way. By helping you break down the barriers that are psychological or practical.
And for every “Yeah But” I get, I say “But Why?” Because as your coach, it’s my job not to accept your limitations.
Instead, we’ll brainstorm your opportunities and stretch your abilities. Sometimes, the spicy moves you need to make to reach your goal won’t always feel warm and fuzzy. But you’re a warrior, so I know you can do it.
But you know what makes life tougher than inaction?
The pain of regret.
That heavy, persistent ache that lingers around missed opportunities, unchased dreams, and the “what ifs” that haunt our minds.
Those moments when we hesitated, doubted, or feared to take a leap of faith. The cost of inaction can be far greater than the price of taking that leap.
Investing in yourself may feel daunting, but it’s the very act that can shield you from the crushing weight of opportunity missed. When you invest in yourself, you’re telling the world that you’re worth it.
You hold the power to make a change, to seize those dreams, and to shape a life with no room for regret.
So the question is, are you ready to take that leap and let the weight of regret be replaced with the lightness of fulfillment?
Put an end to your misery. Apply for a Career Discovery Call.
The Best Only Deserve The Best!!
I’m not selling coaching. I’m selling YOU on YOU!
You’re buying clarity, certainty, direction, ease, relief, joy and tons of other experiences.
The high-performance coaching I offer has far more power from a career perspective than cheaper coaching services. We cover things you may not have even considered in the past that are crucial to your career wellbeing and worth ethic.
The C.A.R.E.™ Plan allows you to go deeper so you can climb higher. It covers more than just your day job – it takes the edge off the hustle. By giving you the tools and brainpower to create daily success habits and provide solutions to everyday problems. That will leave you feeling blissed out, not burned out.
Because let’s face it, your wellbeing is always on your to-do list but somehow never reaches the top of the list…until now.
Having been an assistant to some of the brightest brains in law, prepare to be inspired by exceptional service. Don’t miss this chance to learn from the best and transform your life!
Apparently, I’ve been told I’m outrageously inspiring and fun to work with. Let’s say I can flip your perspective quicker than you can toss a pancake on Shrove Tuesday!
Your Life in High Resolution
If you’re ready to make the shift from overwhelmed high achiever to focused high performer, let the C.A.R.E.™ Plan be your guide. It’s a dynamic game-changer–it’s more than a tool; it’s a life upgrade. That captures your vibe and feels totally *you*.
How?
⭐ It helps you recognise your self-worth and identity when you strip away the roles you play.
⭐ It draws a line between self-care (prioritising your wellbeing) and sweat equity (overworking).
⭐ It gives you more influence and credibility in your career or business, creating massive impact.
⭐ It builds your resilience muscle so you can change your behaviour in times of stress.
⭐ It’s liberating and gives you freedom over your choices. And the power to say no when you trust in yourself.
⭐ It accelerates your career or business growth. Attracting positions and options that are aligned with your values & aspirations.
⭐ It improves your relationships and opens the floodgates to more ease, joy and happiness.
⭐ It helps you build better support networks with higher-level connections.
⭐ It reduces how much you worry and makes you more confident as you take control of your emotions.
⭐ It helps you to make more money in your career or business when you charge your value.
⭐ It wins back your time, so you don’t need to be on the hamster wheel of life.
⭐ It makes your voice bolder and your business sense sharper as you believe in your own brilliance.
⭐ It makes you more powerful, persuasive and 100% YOU, so you are seen and heard in a noisy world.
Gone are the days of feeling overwhelmed by your own ambitions. Instead, you’ll thrive. Say goodbye to stress-induced burnout and hello to a more focused, fulfilled life.
This is the moment your future self will thank you for. So, let’s get this party started with a Career Discovery Call.
And I cannot wait to meet you!